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7 Behaviors Of Confident People

Appearing confident is one thing. Being confident is something else. True confidence never shouts.

1. They talk less around unintelligent conversations.

Confident people never try to correct people, preach to people, or be the bigger person in the situation. When they find themselves in a conversation that is negative, they just talk less in these situations.

2. They dress well.

They do know however what works for them. Maybe they have a form-fitting tailored suit. Maybe they have sunglasses that make them feel like a celebrity. What ever it is, they have attire that makes them feel the part.

3. Their verbal cues match their non-verbal cues.

If someone was complimenting another person while wincing or faking a smile, it may be a sign that they didn’t mean what they were saying. Confident people on the other hand tend to mean what they say.

4. They don’t rely on luck.

Luck is for those without the confidence to take responsibility. Confident people with high self esteem will take luck when they get it, but they don’t rely on it. They know they will succeed without it.

5. They don’t over-apologize.

Over-apologizing is often associated with people-pleasing, low self-esteem, or a feeling of responsibility for other people’s actions. Confident people know that they’re only accountable for themselves.

6. Their body posture is very open and inviting.

People who are confident will lean into the conversation, and not away from it. They will maintain eye contact with whoever they are speaking to, or whoever is speaking to them.

7. They are comfortable striking up a conversation.

People with confidence don’t wait for others to strike up a conversation with them. They can talk to people that are mere acquaintances or strangers they meet.

Born to express, not impress.

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1. Most of them have the habit of staying up late into the night.

2. They may have bad handwriting because of the trouble with their mouth and hand keeping up.

3. They have unusual, out of the box, apparently ‘crazy’ ideas.

4. They’re prefer to be with their own company.

5. They’re brutally honest with what they don’t know.

6. They can talk to people they don’t like and hear ideas they don’t agree with and not get emotional.

7. They have a twisted sense of humor. They are most likely to enjoy and understand dark humor.

8. They have good body memory. Their bodies can pick up routines faster than others.

9. They use the Keanu behavior to boost intelligence.

Keanu Reeves says highly intelligent people play a game. They try to be wrong once in a while. They practice being wrong more often to reset their egos.

10. They can explain difficult matter in an easy way.

11. They can make connections between seemingly unrelated subjects.

8 Hard Truths To Admit But Makes You Stronger

 

  1. Normalize saying “No” without needing to over-explain yourself. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that's their problem.
  2. Prioritize your peace. Practice being calm when you feel like you're being challenged or tested. Over-reacting only creates regret.
  3. Make a habit of not holding someone's past against them. When someone works hard to grow & change into a better person, allow them to show up as that person.
  4. Mature enough to wish the best for people you know longer talk with, and real enough to mean it.
  5. It's okay to take a joke. But it's not okay to fake disrespect disguised as a joke. There's a difference.
  6. Sometimes our biggest disappointments lead us to our biggest blessings.
  7. Learn your place in people's life, so you don't overplay your part.
  8. To avoid disappointment, take people for what they are and not what they could be.