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6 Things To Realize Once You Are Mature


  1. It’s better to keep silent. In some situations when you explain to people more, it doesn’t help. The more you explain, the more they will suspect you. Nowadays, people don’t like to get more explanation, it’s better to stay quiet when you know the other is not ready to understand.
  2. Social media is useless unless you use it to make money or make a living. When you are a child you don’t know the value of time and waste lots of your time on social media, but when you realize the value of the time you stop wasting your precious time on social media. Stop or limit using those apps before you realize the fact.
  3. Friends are not important. Friends are good to have but don’t give that much because you make friends at each stage of your life, your that stage will complete, you’ll move on and they too. But don’t get upset if you all move on, just remember the memories you had with them and smile that it did happen.
  4. It’s OK to be misunderstood. It’s OK if people don’t understand you, you owe no explanation to anyone. It’s is common to be misunderstood, you are not here to make everyone understand you, but to understand yourself.
  5. It’s OK to make mistakes. No one is perfect in this world and mistakes don’t mean you are failures. Mistakes tell you to do better next time. Life doesn’t come with instructions so it’s fine if you have made mistake. It’s OK to have a bad day, be less than perfect. You will be still you. These are some of the things you realized when you got mature or by your life experience.
  6. Crying doesn’t make you weak. Crying is the symbol of inner strength, it is the only thing that is heavy yet makes you feel lighter. It doesn’t have to be considered as a weakness. Things you realize when you got mature is Crying itself is a form of strength. A strong person cries, then get up and fight again.

9 Most Powerful Habits

 

  1. Being brave. The willingness to do uncomfortable things for future good is priceless.
  2. Uplifting self-talk. Your thoughts should build you up instead of tearing you down.
  3. Questioning things. You aren’t a sheep. Don’t do something just because everybody is doing it.
  4. Encouraging others. There is enough negativity in the world, why create more?
  5. Integrity. Never pretend to be someone for social approval.
  6. Build strengths. Develop a skill you are naturally good at.
  7. Being curious. You should be on the look-out for learning new things because you can never know enough.
  8. Being proactive. Problems are inevitable, focus on the solutions.
  9. Saying No. If it’s heavy let it go. Find a way to do what you want.

13 Ways To Self Improvement In 1-2 Months


  1. Cut-off bad friends — drop the dead weight because they aren’t going anywhere. It’s not noble to let them hold you back.
  2. Practice doing nothing — Regularly throughout the day, take 5-mins to enjoy where you are without a need to fix it.
  3. Harness Awareness — meditate daily for at least 10-mins a day. Separate yourself from your mind and body.
  4. Fix body-clock — Wake-up and sleep at roughly around the same time. You need some rhythm in your body.
  5. Don’t over eat — It takes a toll on your body and mind. Eat regular small, 4–5 meals throughout the day.
  6. Develop a skill — Pick one interest and practice it every day. Writing or drawing, there are free resources to get started.
  7. Educate on life — Read philosophy and books, from the world's greatest thinkers. You must learn to live a good life. It doesn't come naturally. 
  8.  Self-talk: The greatest way to motivate yourself is to look at your self-talk. If you are exercising and say I can never do it, I am so out of breath then guess what you won’t be able to perform.
  9. Comfort zones: No matter how many goals you set or affirmations you do, if you aren’t going out of your comfort zone you aren’t growing.
  10. 5% rule: Whenever a situation seems unbearable or unchangeable, ask yourself how can I make it just 5% better? This will build so much momentum.
  11. Rewire: Whenever your brain says; I can never do that, that’s not possible. Look for proof otherwise. If you ate healthy for a day chances are you can do it for another day.
  12. Rest: It’s okay to be weak and not always be hustling. Learn to optimize your health. Do things that are good for you; exercise, better sleep etc.
  13. Life’s purpose: Your life’s purpose is to find your life purpose. The only way to do that is by moving closer to the things that you like. Start tapping into your intuition.