5 Psychological Facts To Be A More Likable Person

 

1. Be Direct: People love boldness. You will be respected when you become a straight talker. Example: If you can’t provide a favor, say no instead of trying to please them.
2. Love yourself: If you don’t like yourself, no one else will. You must change what you don’t like about yourself and accept what you can’t change. Example: You can change your weight but you can only accept your background.
3. Enjoy yourself: You don’t always need to be around people. People will want to be with you when you are happy by yourself.
4. Admit your mistakes: Swallow your pride and always accept your mistake. Deflecting blame is always seen as a weakness.
5. Listen more: When you listen more instead of talking people feel special. In return, they will make you feel special. Example: If let someone vent by being a good listener, they will return the favor.
6. Reveal some insecurities: When you share a few uncomfortable truths about yourself, people will feel comfortable and reciprocate. Example: When talking to someone new, share the truth about your nervousness.

6 Hardest Truth Of Life

1. Sex is overrated.
2. Consumerism is overrated.
3. Personal development is underrated. But it doesn’t pay any bills.
4. If you are too skilled, people will be jealous and this will spell trouble.
5. If you suck, then you will get trouble for that reason instead.
6. Just as you start getting the hang of things and enjoying what you do, it is time to leave and enter the next chapter of studies / life / work.

What are some paradoxes in life? 

1. The more you seek approval from others, the less you will get it.
2. You can only be brave when you are afraid.
3. If you aren’t happy now, you won’t be happy after you achieve your goals.
4. We aren’t wired to be happy and fulfilled, but to be miserable and safe.
5. Without failures, there can be no consistent success.
6. Wisdom is realizing that you know so little.
7. The more available you are to people, the less they will respect you.
8. Nobody will love you if you don’t love yourself.
9. A king and a slave have the same duties i.e. to serve others.
10. If you find yourself in toxic relationships over and over again, then it’s your fault — you teach people how to treat you.
11. Whatever you think is stopping you from living the life you want is not stopping you, but only you.
12. Wisdom is realizing that you know so little.
13. The more available you are to people, the less they will respect you.
14. Nobody will love you if you don’t love yourself.
15. A king and a slave have the same duties i.e. to serve others.
16. If you find yourself in toxic relationships over and over again, then it’s your fault — you teach people how to treat you.
17. Whatever you think is stopping you from living the life you want is not stopping you, but only you.

10 Kinds Of Mindset Common To Successful People

 

1. If you plant an orange seed, you won’t get an apple. If your standards are to just get by, you won’t get rich. Have high standards.
2. Your ego will hold you back for the rest of your life. Take bold action towards your intuition to shut it up.
3. It’s not about what you get in the end, it’s about the person you become. Watch out for who you are becoming.
4. It’s better to create an abundance mindset instead of desperation. Things will be pulled towards you if you enjoy your life.
5. If it won’t matter in 5 years, it shouldn’t matter now. Avoid worrying about little things.
6. The more value you provide in the market place, the more you will be rewarded. Money is about serving not taking.
7. The best way to make people like you is to have fun. Do what makes you happy and people will be attracted to you.
8. Whatever you give your attention to, expands. Look for proof on how things are working for you.
9. Your mood is affected by the movies, music, news you read. Consume good content.
10. In the end, success comes down to daily happiness and fulfillment.