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Self-confidence and Self-esteem Development In 3 Steps

 1. Do hard things.

  • Waking up at 5 am is hard.
  • Running first thing in the morning is hard.
  • Working on your business alone on a Saturday night is hard.
  • Quitting your job to pursue what makes you happier is hard.
  • Moving to a new place to find better friends is hard.
  • Deciding what you want to do with your life is hard.

2. Doing hard things breeds confidence.

If you do these things, you will begin to develop self-esteem.

But what is self-esteem?

Esteem is respect and admiration.
Self-esteem is respect and admiration for 
yourself.

3. That’s right, it means you think you’re awesome.

And not in some arrogant way. We all know people like that and they are no fun.

Most often, behind the facade and underneath the layers, they are simply seeking approval.

We all are. Start by getting your own approval.

20 Healthy Habits That Are Good To Get Into In 2025

 

  1. Drink water.
  2. Talk with a positive person.
  3. Write down three good things that happened to you each day.
  4. Laugh – even if you have to force it. The mere action of laughing releases endorphins.
  5. Get some sun (or a positive vibe, if it’s a gray day.): I haven't been exposed enough sunlight. 
  6. Go for an exercise or meditation.
  7. Ask for a hug from one person a day.
  8. Call an old friend or relative.
  9. Invest some time doing a hobby you enjoy and find relaxing.
  10. Buy something new (even something small, like a new type of coffee.)
  11. Distance from the people who sucks your inner peace: I blacklisted a lot of people and stopped talking to them. :D
  12. Take a nap.
  13. Know your limits.
  14. Self-care.
  15. Eat healthy.
  16. Set smart goals.
  17. Stay organised.
  18. Sleep well.
  19. Avoid Cigarette: If you can not avoid, try to consume least as much as you can.
  20. Share with a smile if you like this post and follow me, Have a nice day......... ;)

Edit : If you ever get any chance for hiking, go for it. We’ve a lot of beautiful places.

21 Daily Habits That Could Make A Huge Improvement On Our Lives

 

  1. 5 Minutes More - Just add 5 more minutes to anything productive you do. Procrastinate on procrastinating.
  2. Do Something ASAP - When anything comes in your mind do something about it immediately, even if it is just planning it. Get it out of your head.
  3. Set Your Intentions - Know what you are going to do today. Lead the day actively.
  4. Check Things Off - When you are done with something make a clear-cut mark to be done with it.
  5. Start Early - Everyone works better in the morning. Do something difficult before you'd normally get up. You'll feel great all day.
  6. Remind Yourself - 99% of all self-improvement is repetition. Multiple daily reminders ingrain concepts.
  7. Control Your Time - If you don't control your time you'll end up wasting a lot of it. You only have 24 hours each day and maybe only this one life; Don't waste a single second.
  8. Go Outside - Add a bit of nature (ideally a natural body of water of some sort) to your daily routine. The calm will often reset you.
  9. Meditate - Work out your body, your mind and your heart and soul. Go inward. Learn about yourself. And improve.
  10. Love Yourself - Spend some time each day feeling proud or happy or loving with who you are. You spend 24 hours a day with yourself. That's a long time to hate someone.
  11. Have Fun - Do something each day that's just fun. Follow a hobby, pick up a new skill or read in your favorite book.
  12. Drink More Water - While 2L a day is recommended, 3–4L will really make you feel healthy and refreshed.
  13. Read A Book - 1 Chapter a day or 10 pages.
  14. Eat More Greens - Fruits and Vegetables over candy and snacks. Try having 3–4 Fruits or Veggies in every meal.
  15. Focus On Earning - Instead of trying save try to earn more. What could you do today that might make you and your time worth more?
  16. Act Big - Go for 10x more of what you think you want. Take it seriously and give it an honest shot. You'll reach much further as your mental limits won't hold you back as much.
  17. Reflect - Whatever you did, learn to reflect on it. What went well? What did not? What is one thing you will do better tomorrow?
  18. Be A Hero - First identify who that is and then take a step there daily. It makes an astounding difference when you choose where you want to go.
  19. Hug Someone - Release some oxytocin by being physical. If that is not possible then help someone. If you can't do that, then be charitable.
  20. Be Present - This moment is all that matters. Take it in. You are alive now. Work with purpose, laugh with true joy or do what you need to do in the here and now.
  21. Break A Limit - Push a boundary and test your limits. Challenge yourself to be better than you were before so you move into who you want to be.